Thread: Ask Lucy: Practical Advice for the Modern Man

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What would our friend burrocrat do if he came across some dieseling?

Originally Posted by jpcavin

PMDD is treated same way as depression and anxiety.....antidepressants. Do you kick them to the moon as well?

Antidepressents work when the person to whom the drugs are prescribed realizes that there is a problem that needs a prescription to be treated and agrees to take said medication. Without such self realization, there is an abundance of conflict.

As I said before, I will not risk my career on domestic violence. I will simply leave the house when I reach my limit of tolerance. She is aware of that, as I recently told her I would leave if things continued on the current path.

Originally Posted by Viva_La_Migra

Antidepressents work when the person to whom the drugs are prescribed realizes that there is a problem that needs a prescription to be treated and agrees to take said medication. Without such self realization, there is an abundance of conflict.

As I said before, I will not risk my career on domestic violence. I will simply leave the house when I reach my limit of tolerance. She is aware of that, as I recently told her I would leave if things continued on the current path.

We were speaking in generalities. You didn't say your wife was sick and stubborn.

Found this on Facebook and thought I would post for discussion:

Husband’s Spreadsheet Of When His Wife Denied Sex Goes Viral – And Garners Some Surprising Comments

Guy sent a text with spreadsheet to wife documenting frequency of "relations".

Good, bad, what say you Lucy?

Originally Posted by Frixxxx

Found this on Facebook and thought I would post for discussion:

Husband’s Spreadsheet Of When His Wife Denied Sex Goes Viral – And Garners Some Surprising Comments

Guy sent a text with spreadsheet to wife documenting frequency of "relations".

Good, bad, what say you Lucy?

I think he was immature and handled it wrong. And she was wrong for posting it on Reddit.
As far as the particulars about their relationship, not enough information is given.
Generally speaking.....
Women are not programmed to perform simply because a man conveys a desire to have sex. Women need to feel wanted and not just sexually. Did he only pay attention to her when he wanted sex? We don't know the answer to that question. Did she fall out of love with him or does she feel unloved and unappreciated?
Most men that focus on making a woman happy don't have these problems. I'm not talking about the man that just does things to avoid making the woman angry. I'm talking about the man that goes out of his way to please his partner and to show her how much she means to him and how special she is each and every single day. Any man that goes that extra mile shouldn't have any problem in the bedroom.
She could also be having an affair. That would be another explanation for her lack of interest. But then again, why did she lose interest? Too many unknown variables.

I'm only pointing out what the man may be doing wrong because he is the one complaining.

Originally Posted by Birchtree

What would our friend burrocrat do if he came across some dieseling?

He should probably let the clutch out as soon as the ignition is turned off or step on the gas and get the hell out of dodge. If he lets it go on too long, something is gonna get damaged.

He should have took notes of what he did when his wife gave it up, and did more of that

Originally Posted by Frixxxx

Found this on Facebook and thought I would post for discussion:

Husband’s Spreadsheet Of When His Wife Denied Sex Goes Viral – And Garners Some Surprising Comments

Guy sent a text with spreadsheet to wife documenting frequency of "relations".

Good, bad, what say you Lucy?

Originally Posted by Birchtree

What would our friend burrocrat do if he came across some dieseling?

one time i had a car like that, she was easy to fire up but no matter how i turned the key would never quit, just kept shuddering and shaking and knocking.

now if i met a gal like that, i would definately be spending less time posting on tsptalk. and i wouldn't sell it either.

Dear Lucy,

I have a number of questions I have pondered for sometime now. Perhaps you can add your unique insight.
1. Why is there a light in the fridge, but not in the freezer?
2. Who was the first person to look at a cow and say, " I thing I'll squeeze these dangly things here and drink whatever comes out?"
3. If quizzes are quizzical, what are tests?
4. Do illiterate people get the full effect of Alphabet Soup?
5. Why doesn't glue stick to the inside of the bottle?
Any insight you can provide would be greatly appreciated.

Originally Posted by ravensfan

Dear Lucy,

I have a number of questions I have pondered for sometime now. Perhaps you can add your unique insight.
1. Why is there a light in the fridge, but not in the freezer?
2. Who was the first person to look at a cow and say, " I thing I'll squeeze these dangly things here and drink whatever comes out?"
3. If quizzes are quizzical, what are tests?
4. Do illiterate people get the full effect of Alphabet Soup?
5. Why doesn't glue stick to the inside of the bottle?
Any insight you can provide would be greatly appreciated.

I'm sure google can answer most of your questions. You should try it sometime.